A Fun, Practical, Non-Judgmental, No-BS Approach to Sex and Intimacy Coaching

I’m a Somatica-trained sex and intimacy coach and a trained sexual health educator. I blend somatic coaching with a deep understanding of sexual health to help people better understand their bodies, desires, and relationships in a grounded, practical way.

My approach to sex coaching is straightforward and no-BS. Sessions are welcoming, curious, and often fun, not clinical or overly theoretical. You don’t need the perfect language or a clear goal to start. We work with what’s actually happening for you and build skills through exploration, practice, and real-time noticing.

In sessions, we can talk about pretty much anything, pleasure, body image, boundaries, mismatched desire, sex toys, communication, or exploring your identity. Most of us were never taught how to talk about sex or intimacy, yet we’re expected to just know how to do it. This work helps bridge that gap.

As a queer woman, I bring a lived understanding of how queerness shapes how we relate, how we desire, and how we feel in our bodies. Queer relationships can be expansive and creative, and they can also involve a lot of unlearning. I’m here for the honest, sometimes awkward, and deeply worthwhile work that comes with that.

My desire to become an intimacy coach grew out of years of being a sexual health and relationship educator. I have taught in schools, youth organizations and hosted many sex positive events. I’ve been having these conversations about sexuality, desire, and relationships for years, and I wanted to take it further, so I made it official by training with the Somatica Institute.

The Somatica method is experiential and embodied. This work isn’t just about talking through ideas or theories, it’s about putting things into practice, noticing what comes up in your body, and gaining confidence through lived experience.

Examples of things we can work on together:

• Shame-free Sex Education

• Feeling disconnected from your body or desire

• Struggling to talk about sex with partners

• Dating and relationships

• Navigating mismatched desire in a relationship

• Unlearning shame around sex, pleasure, or identity

• Navigating STIs

• Wanting more ease, joy, or confidence in intimacy

• Curiosity around sex toys & solo sex

Note: This is sex coaching and education, not sex therapy. I am not a clinical counsellor or medical professional, and may refer you to other supports if needed.